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I think a distinction can be made between chapters two and three about newlyweds and that is based on their roles before and after they are married.  For instance, in the second chapter, the male held the pressures of being financially stable and maintaining an occupation that would hold the newlyweds family. The worries of the female were more based on her family's dowry and how it would support the newlyweds after marriage.  The third chapter reflects the matrimony between the two and reflects more of today's society's marriage celebrations (ex. wife's family pays for the wedding celebration).  I found it interesting how Quakers culture had a way of toning down the actual ceremony to a formal dinner for fear that the celebration would stray towards "unbecoming behavior." (page 65) --Joe Cirenza
 
I think a distinction can be made between chapters two and three about newlyweds and that is based on their roles before and after they are married.  For instance, in the second chapter, the male held the pressures of being financially stable and maintaining an occupation that would hold the newlyweds family. The worries of the female were more based on her family's dowry and how it would support the newlyweds after marriage.  The third chapter reflects the matrimony between the two and reflects more of today's society's marriage celebrations (ex. wife's family pays for the wedding celebration).  I found it interesting how Quakers culture had a way of toning down the actual ceremony to a formal dinner for fear that the celebration would stray towards "unbecoming behavior." (page 65) --Joe Cirenza
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I found it interesting how much of a lack of communication there was between husband and wife.  Each person envied the others lifestyle and yet both were depressed.  It did talk about writing letters back and forth, but they never expressed what they were truly feeling.  Women only expressed their feelings to other women who could relate to them.  Society was so caught up in their gender roles that couples could not talk to each other openly. -- Kari W.
  
 
== Courtship ==
 
== Courtship ==

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